提升自己技能和才华的7种方法

 

Decision-making is a top leadership competency because it pops up everywhere, from the simple choice of where to hold a staff meeting to the strategic options of where to spend marketing¹ dollars. These decisions impact the people in the next cubicle², but they may also affect a subsidiary halfway³ across the globe or an entire country.

 

Decisiveness is not a trait we're born with -- it's a skill that can be learned. To master it, analyze⁴ your process of critical decision-making to spot weak links in your reasoning and to recognize unconscious biases⁵ for or against something or someone. While we can't control outcomes, we can shape the process that sets them in motion.

 

 

You may never address the United Nations Security Council or testify before Congress, but everyone should be able to put together a coherent argument. That skill is critically and frequently useful -- in high-stakes conversations, in presentations, in question-and-answer sessions and in other discussions with decision-makers or anyone else who represents a certain viewpoint or asks you to explain yours.

 

To argue means to give reasons. It means defending and promoting your choices against the contrary arguments of equally adept⁶ influencers. Take what you've learned in school and build on that base with private instruction and directed reading on the relevant subject. You'll find that your ability to think critically and analyze others' arguments will dramatically increase your influence on their choices.

 

 

Storytelling has been a premier⁷ tool in influencing people across cultures and eras. Influencers tell stories for strategic purposes. From motivating people to act, to teaching, to reducing resistance and changing minds, a well-told narrative⁸ is a formidable force, often far more powerful than the mere⁹ recitation of complex financial or technical facts.

 

Numbers and figures are important, but when it comes to showing their relationship to any issue, large or small, a strategic narrative wrapped around the digits¹⁰ will deliver the message better and more memorably¹¹ than anything else.

 

After you master the data, ask yourself: Is there a way to put a human face on my message? Are there real-life examples that will help me make my point in a way others can relate to?

 

 

When many of us think of influential¹² people, we often think of those who were great speakers, such as John F. Kennedy, Ronald Reagan and Steve Jobs, as well as contemporaries such as Michelle Obama and Sheryl Sandberg. While many influencers operate effectively behind the scenes, those with the ability, the drive and the courage to speak persuasively¹³ have an additional source of powerful leverage¹⁴.

 

Like decision-making skills, speaking skills are in high demand. Every day in myriad¹⁵ organizations, corporations and schools, vast numbers of presenters¹⁶ strive to capture the imaginations of workers and executives and students in order to drive an agenda forward. Yet many people fear speaking in public, giving in to a panic that closes a heavy door on a fast track to success and influence.

 

Do not shy away from speaking opportunities. Hone your message and delivery skill by repeatedly putting yourself in front of an audience, gather feedback, make adjustments, rinse¹⁷ and repeat. Summon the courage to speak and accept discomfort¹⁸ as a natural part of learning and growing. Start in smaller settings first, and then build up from there. There's no limit to where your influence can grow with this skill.

 

 

You can't have an intelligent conversation with your peers and clients if you're stumped¹⁹ when faced with everyday topics such as the election, taxes, budget deficits²⁰, interest rates, markets, unemployment and the meaning of all these things to the average citizen. You don't need to be an expert on these topics, but you do need a basic understanding of them.

 

Influence is about shaping opinion, and embarrassing holes in everyday knowledge -- the kind that force you to awkwardly steer²¹ conversations into friendlier waters -- can significantly dampen your 360-degree influencing efforts. To fill these gaps, set aside a particular time each day to learn what's in the news. Make it a daily habit. It will require no more than 20 minutes.

 

 

Influence is most obvious when it happens at the front of the pack. While influence can arise from any position, it is also from a position of leadership that it can make the most impact.

 

The most successful companies develop their high-potential leaders from within. If you're lucky enough to work for a leadership-development powerhouse such as GE, IBM or P&G, you've got it made, because everyone else is going to woo you to come on board with them and practice what you've learned.

 

 

It's the 21st century, and even 5 year olds know about Twitter, Facebook and the latest multimedia²² platforms. Social media have secured a big foothold and they're here to stay. If you don't have an ongoing²³ online dialogue with your customers or if you need a 19 year old to show you the ropes every time you log on to your website's forum²⁴, you're behind.

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